I tried to clap for this more, then realized that you can only clap for something on Medium fifty times. This is absolutely true!!!! Everything you described totally resonated! As a girl, I’ve gotten so sick of this that I’ve started giving guys massive amounts of shit for shoving all of their problems onto me — whenever a guy asks me to remind him about something, for example, I tell him to set a reminder on his phone, because he actually has the ability to do the damn thing himself. Self-sufficiency should be encouraged in everyone, and men should learn how to breathe without needing someone to remind them to.